He called on Saturday morning and asked if I was at home, of course I’m at home
It’s Saturday. Some hours later he showed up at my place.
He apologized for not calling or visiting, he talked about the good times we shared,
he talked about me having a lovely family and me having a good heart and all that.
And at the end of the whole epistles he said and I quote “Pamilerin I think we need
“A break? Then you must think I’m blind, stupid and gullible. Tunde you and I know
we don’t need a break, you don’t need to fool me, I wasn’t born yesterday.
You know exactly what we need and please don’t make me say it for you because
I won’t forgive you if you make me say it for you”
“Pamilerin! I love you, but I’m not just feeling the vibe anymore, Love is not enough
you know” he said with Pleading.
“Please cut the chase and spare me the lectures” I said sternly.
“Ehm actually, things are no longer working out between us, what I really mean is
that…we should….end the relationship” he said
I knew already that the relationship is over I just want him to say whatever he has
to say and leave me for good, I was that tired.
“Fine, the relationship has ended before now, all this is just formalities. I wish you
all the best”
He was shocked at my words. I’m sure he didn’t expect that, he thought I’ll be
crying or something or maybe he thought I’ll beg him not to leave, it’s written all
over his face that he was shocked at the way I reacted to the news.
I’ve cried my eyes dried before now and I already let go since.
He apologized for not coming out straight in the first place and with that we ended
In the evening, I went to my parent’s bedroom, and explained everything to them.
“Pamilerin, so you two have been having issues all this while and you never
mentioned it? My Mom asked sounding worried.
“Mummy, I was trying to give him time, I thought things will get back to normal”
“So where did he expect you to start from now, ehn!” she lamented
“Eh! Woman, what will your Lamentation solve now. You should even thank God
that we discover his true identity early” My Daddy said firmly.
“I thank God oooo, broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Who
would have thought that, that boy would change like that” My mom said putting
her two palms together.
“Daniella! My daddy called out as he fondly calls me.
“Sir” I replied
“Every disappointment is a blessing, and if one door closes another will open. So
please try as much as possible to move on with your life”
“Yes sir, thank you sir”
“Jo oko mi ma ronu o” (my daughter, please don’t brood about it)This is just a
sign that Tunde is not yours. Please be strong, ehn!” Mummy added.
“ Mo ti gbo ma” (I’ve heard you ma) I replied.
I knelt down and thanked them.
“Good night sir/ma”
“Good night” they chorused.
I told my siblings who were still in the sitting room, I broke the news to them too.
There’s no point calling any friend, they’ll find out sooner or later.
I called my cousin, Joy. She’s preparing for her wedding with the same guy that
got her pregnant when we were still in school. At least there are still few loyal
ones out there. I guessed I wasn’t lucky with mine.
“Dear cousin, what’s up”
“Joy, Tunde broke up with me, he’s seeing someone else”
“It’s a lie, tell me you are joking. After all this years….”
“I’m not joking” I took my time and explained everything to her.
“That’s his loss my dear, just take heart, I believe God will provide someone far far
better than him”
“Please don’t kill yourself over one stupid son of Adam o”
“Me! Never. My sister how’s the wedding preparation going?” I asked brushing my
own issue aside.
“Leave that for now, Let’s focus on you now”
“Joy…. There’s nothing to focus, Let’s just say that’s how God wants it.
She told me about the latest plan on ground, before I ended the call.
I prayed that night thanking God for giving me the strength to handle it, while I was
praying few drops of tears left my eyes, but trust me I wasn’t down or broken.
I told myself “Isaac Oluwapamilerin Daniella the sun will shine again” with that, I slept off.