“I have a condition” I said
“What’s the condition”
“No more sex”
He laughed. “I know you are saying this because you are
angry, all the same, I’ve heard you”
“You are laughing right! you think I’m joking, I’m dead
“I’ve heard you, is that all?”
“Yes, for now”
“OK my love, I’ll talk to you later”
He ended the call and I couldn’t help but cry. I’m I in the right
relationship?” I asked myself.
He acted normal for a month. He calls and even visited me
twice and after that Tunde shut down again like Nigeria’s
I was so preoccupied, the only day I can meet him at home is
Sunday. But now Sunday is out of it because my schedules
are tight on Sundays too. Ever since the last incident, I’ve
been committed in Church.
After church service I’ll have to attend meetings upon
meetings and by 5pm I’ll have to be in the house fellowship
which I can’t afford to miss being the new house fellowship
For like two months I did not set my eyes on him. Now he
doesn’t pick my calls and of course he never return my calls.
The reality of loosing him now hit me. I cried my eyes out
when it dawned on me that my 5years relationship is crumbling
before my very eyes.
Everybody knew us to be an item, my family, his family,
friends, What will I tell them? It’s 4months gone and we did
not see each other despite the fact that we both stay in the
I called my cousin, Joy and told her what was going on.
“Pamilerin, don’t stop calling him”
“Even if he’s not picking my calls?”
“Yes, keep on calling and please create time and go see him .
So that it can be said of you that you did your best”
“I’ve heard you. I’ll find time and check on him”
On Sunday, I decided not to attend all my Sunday meetings
just for me to see him. I went to his house but to my surprise,
I met the room empty. I was told he had moved out, the guy I
met in his compound said he had no idea of where he
The guy asked how come I never knew he relocated.
I took his question for an insult. But he is right, how will my
boyfriend move out without my knowledge
“Do you remember the last time you visited him?” he asked.
“Ehn ehn! He moved out the second day”
My hand bag and phone fell from my hand.
“Are you sure of what you just said?”
“Yes, I’m sure because I asked after you when he was parking
and he said you left the previous evening”
I refused to believe the guy. Tunde had another friend in the
compound, I checked on him, but he was not around. I left the
place troubled, I called him severally and he did not pick my
I returned home in the evening and I texted him, he called back
and told me he’ll come to my house the next weekend, I asked
him where he relocated to but he refused to disclose his new
address. Stay tuned for more episode probably at nyt
See u guys.